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Ready or not, ASL interpreters?

At some point in time, whether it has already happened, or it will happen one day, you decide to be an ASL interpreter (or if you’re in another country, whatever your country’s signed language is) and you hopefully feel a spark of excitement. Perhaps you are a CODA, a child of Deaf adult(s), and the…

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Creative Juice

Where you can find me to tell me your thoughts

I love to write, and I enjoy knowing what others think and feel about my written works. Sometimes I want to entertain, to make someone smile, to laugh, to join others in feeling. Sometimes I just need to express myself, to seek that cathartic feeling, and find peace in the act. I love to tell stories.…

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Stop saying you sign badly

I see this all the time, paired with looks of dejection or at best, an awkward sheepishness. I sign badly, sorry… My ASL is so awful… I forgot a lot… Sorry, I am slow… You don’t sign badly. I don’t care if you only know a few words. Apologizing to me is pointless and is…

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Lamplight

You are always you, no matter how much you change

I have thought a lot about how we change as we grow up, but still remain ourselves. I see it in my kids as the years go by. They learn new skills, their faces and bodies grow, their thoughts and behaviors slowly shift toward who they will eventually become. At the heart of it all,…

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parenthood is a rollercoaster

This is what happens when kids don’t watch television, I guess

Spider Monkey pirate lizard of Sherwood Forest A photo posted by J Parrish Lewis (@jparrishlewis) on Jan 29, 2016 at 4:04pm PST I love imagination. And when kids can use their imagination in combination with a box of random costumes, you get even more creativity. We don’t have TV reception at our home. No cable,…

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I’m not really a poet, but I sure had fun writing a parody poem

Awhile ago, a little over a year, I started entertaining myself by rewriting one of my favorite poems by Edgar Allen Poe, the famous poem you probably know: The Raven. At first, I was just going to do a simple version, but as I was writing it, I was challenged to actually take the time…

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change is good

I went grocery shopping and opened my eyes a little bit more

Strictly out of curiosity, I decided I’d make two grocery shopping trips today and figure out how much money I’d save if I go to WinCo, which is known for being cheaper, versus going to Save Mart. I’m going to be honest. I don’t like WinCo’s produce section. It’s large, yes, but I find the…

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Deaf-Centered Topics

You’re probably not going to learn ASL unless you interact with us

Excuse me. Someone said you’re all learning ASL? Hi. Nice to meet you. Yes, I AM deaf. I just wanted to come over here and introduce myself, because you’ve all been sitting over here in this corner chatting in voices with each other instead of coming over to meet us. It’s okay, I understand. It’s not…

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Funny Ha-Ha

I hate LOL but I give up. LOL, you win.

In 1996, when I first started seeing LOL, I LOLed a lot. It was LOL LOL LOL all over the place in chat rooms. LIke every other sentence. I must have thought the world was hilarious. As the years passed, LOL started to annoy me. A lot. I said, “LOL, shut up! Be gone!” and…